thaaymai unarvodu oru kavithai.
arumai!

Why to blame appaa? It is our mind set that we expect others to sacrifice their life for our benefit, why not let appaa to live his life, he needs a companion, that we call husband or wife, in our locality, one retired govt employee, lost his wife long back, feeling lonliness, married off his last daughter, then he felt still lonely, finally decided to marry himself with a widow lady without any children, compatible with his age, all his relatives and society botcotted him, no relatives are visiting his house, why he is not allowed to have one companion, not the question of sex, we think of sex if we talk of marriage. When we have no friends, we become desparate, visit temples, religious discourses, still no mental peace.